Hi, it’s Lara and if you are a single, spiritual woman- then I have a possibly life-changing question for you. Actually, I have a few questions for you.
Do you ever feel like you must be “nice”, no matter what?
Were you raised feeling like you must be “perfect” and “do everything right”, and then you’d be loved and accepted by the people around you?
Do you think that “bragging” about yourself is not okay, and that you must be modest about your accomplishments?
Have you been taught that so-called “negative” feelings are bad and destructive?
If you answered Yes to any of these questions, you may be living what is called “The Curse of the Good Girl”.
And this “Curse” IS hampering your efforts at attracting the love and the life of your dreams.
Why? Because if you sacrifice your needs and wants and desires at the altar of everybody else’s expectations of you, you will never be able to gather enough magnetic energy to attract what you REALLY want in life.
“So what’s the antidote to the curse?” you may be asking me.
I’m so glad you asked!
The antidote is multi-steps. I will be covering in them in the next several articles, so stay tuned.
Step #1: Get Real.
Ridding yourself of the Curse of the Good Girl is begun by finding out about yourself, knowing your inner obstacles, your inner strengths and weaknesses and getting real about them. Your goal? To go from “Good Girl” to “REAL Girl”.
How to get real?
a) Start by getting honest with how you really feel about being single- the good, the bad and the ugly. Start journaling on your feelings and expressing them. Take stock of your life overall and what you want to change and what you want to stay the same.
b) Once you’ve taken stock of your life, you must empower yourself ( no one else can do it for you, even though I wish I could, believe me!) to start taking steps to changing your life for the better. How?
Start taking 100% responsibility for your life and your circumstances. Yep, YOU are responsible for your life. If you blame others or fate or God or the devil for your life, then you are giving your power away. A person who takes on a victim mindset does not live a wonderful life, full of joy and fulfillment. A victim invites drama after drama after drama into her life.
All you have to do is write this out in your journal and say it aloud: “I, _____ (fill in your name), take 100% responsibility for my life and my circumstances. This means I now have the power to change my life and my circumstances for the better. I am grateful.”
You may not believe it yet, but that’s okay. Just make it your new mantra. Watch your life change. Rinse and repeat.
See you next week as we discuss another step to alleviating the “Curse of the Good Girl”….
“The thing that is really hard, and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself.”
~ Anna Quindlen
With Love,
Lara
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